I was so happy that day. Just hanging with about twenty friends in a mall. We had just watched a really good movie and everything seemed just perfect. We were walking, seeing the stores in the mall. Telling jokes, talking about life, about love, really having a good time.
One of my friends told me, “Hey let’s paint our hair.”
I said, ” Ok let’s do it!”
So we bought the paint in a shop and we were walking toward the bathrooms. When we got there the girls told us they would paint it to us only if we entered the girl’s bathroom. When I heard this I said no because it would be very unpleasant to the other girls in the bathroom. But my friend entered and the girls painted his hair.
“Everything went good to him” , I thought.
But eventhough I still didn’t wanted. Now came one of the things I have studied a lot of times in sociology: peer pressure. For the people that doesn´t know what this is, is when a friend persuades you to do something you don’t want to do. Everyone started to say, “No nothing will happen”, or, “Don`t be a girl.” So finally everyone convinced me and I entered.
I was very uncomfortable while my friend was painting my hair because other girls entered the bathroom and each of them looked me with a disgusting face, like if I was a pervert or an alien. Something in my inside was saying don’t do that! But unluckily I didn’t followed my instincts.
Suddenly one of my friends entered the batrhoom and said, “Jorge get out of there because the police of the mall is coming!”
Oh my God! I was just freaked out! I didn’t knew what to do because if they saw me running from the bathroom they would think I was escaping, but if I stayed the would do me something bad! So I decided to “hide” behind a wall.
Suddenly the cops entered and I was surrounded by two of them. They told me, “What the f%&$/ are you doing in here! We are going to punch you and hit you a lot!”
From this point now everything felt like a dream. It was like in one of those movies were a person is begging for his life. Also I knew there was no returning from that point. My head was thinking fast and I couldn’t stop my heart from beating, it was beating as hard as when I hammered a nail into wood.
The cops were still threatening me about kicking my butt and to do bad things to me. Also they were insulting me with whatever they could thought of, from, ” You are an fu%$ id$&%&$,” to, ” You are a women because you were painting your hair.”
They were threatening me so much that I started to bribe them. I said, “Please let’s just talk! It was an accident, I didn’t thought the things well. Please forgive me. I can give you my cellphone, all my money, whatever you want just let me go!”
They didn’t even heard me, they were occupied threatening me and insulting me.
At this point I thought that if I didn’t defended they could really kill me. So I was just gathering courage to fight with two cops full of sticks and wepons.
“Hey wait! Don’t be stupid Jorge! They could kill you in two seconds!”, I thought, ” It’s better to just see what happens and if they attack I fight back.”
It passed about five more minutes, I can really tell because every second felt like a lifetime, and the cop in charge came. He took me to the bathroom of the boys and started to make questions like, “What´s your name? Where do you live? Who are your parents?”
I said to all this questions the same, ” I can´t answer that questions because I don´t know you.” But he just keept asking the same questions over and over.
Finally my heroe came! A mom from one of my friends came saying that she was my mom. What a relief it was for me! She took me as rapidly as she could from there. I just got out of that place and I started to cry. It was all just so traumatic. I thought I was near of death, but thanks to God I was safe now.
I couldn’t stop shivering and crying. A friend and the mother of another friend took me downstairs and bought me a coke. My friend started telling me that they were trying to enter the bathroom but there were two big cops in the door. He was just so sorry and scarred too.
I called my dad and he came directly. The moment he came I could see the determination and anger in his ayes, he would fight to death if necessary to defend me. We walked toward the cop in charge and started to talk about what happened. At the end my father said to him he would bring his lawyers against those coops and against the mall. Also that he wanted those coops fired from this moment on. We went back home.
I cried a little more time and bathed. When I finished bathing I was more relaxed and I just slept.
The next day I realized that the worst thing of this experience was that the stupid paint did not painted my hair! But well I learned a lot of good things from this experience: Never enter the girl’s bathroom, never say yes to peer preassure, and finally never buy a cheap hair painter, they will never work.
The only good thing that happened to me from this experience was that the mall gave me 1000 quetzales, which I spend them in clothes!